Why honest people always mix well? Honest people who often have four problems, see you have a few?
I believe we received from small to large education is, a man must be dutiful, to be honest, to be an honest man; but when we grow up we will find that "honest people" is not a compliment if people , it seems that the curse words, and interpersonal communication, "Candide" has always been ignored, or even discrimination, always and everywhere suffer; "honest man" who usually have four problems, which is why honest the reason people always mix well and see you who have it?
1, is not rejected;
honest people will care more about their own impression in the eyes of others, so for someone to his request, often obedience, such as obviously he still lives moderation, but can still be generous to lend money to friends; obviously own hand on a lot of work not completed, or will be agreed to request colleagues to help them complete the work;
honest people want no matter what time, what, can give make a good impression, but do not know if in fact rejected, not their own bottom line, but leaving no good impression, but will make people feel hello bully, is free coolie staff that you do not fly;
So learn to say no is important to know how to say no, can not only hold their own bottom line, but also to be respected by others.
2, do not know how business relationships;
the reason why people are honest people honest, is monotonous character, whether in life or in the workplace, are unlikely to know how to run relationships; in life, from small to large fixed only a few friends, not know how to expand communication circle of friends, humans belong to the group of animals, mix in society, a network of friends is very important, if a person long-term action, it is difficult to succeed.
In the workplace, honest people are afraid to speak and deal with leadership, and leadership relationship and therefore will be very rusty, lack of attention and promotion; but wise men I will be thinking and leadership to close, to find ways to coax leaders happy.
3, will always work hard working;
honest people at work, always hard working, even if very hard not easily cry bitter tired, and honest people generally will not take credit, but will not take the initiative to do promotion and pay rise to leadership even the same period of the promotion and pay rise colleagues, honest people are not envious, just quietly work is not complaining; saying goes, "cry of the child Naichi" sometimes have to learn to express themselves appropriately dissatisfaction and hard, so that it is easy for leaders to see themselves, aware of their existence.
4, always easily trust others;
honest people will always be easy to believe that others say, others a small charity could make him move for a long time, therefore it is easy to trust others, however Clothes make the man, some people face is set after a set back, so it should be in-depth understanding of a person, and then choose to believe does not believe it is more secure; there is not harm anyone, defenses can not do without, in the interests of the face, and not many people are pure, so to learn to protect themselves, do not always think to go sake of others, we are not Notre Dame.
"Candide" dutiful, practical work, this is the basic principle of life, but since today's society too complicated, too honest people in this community have been mixed not open, so we must learn to progress, learn how to adapt to today's society, so as to have a chance of success, how do you see? Welcome to share.